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Great Sales Book Review: Are You Giving to Get or Getting to Give?

May 7, 2012 by Debra Kasowski 2 Comments

Great books are not just made, they are born from knowledge and experience. Bob Burg and John David Mann, have done a fabulous job of creating value and closing the sale in their 2 amazing books:

The Go-Giver: A Little Story About a Powerful Business Ideaand Go-Givers Sell More . According to Burg and Mann, there are Five Laws of Stratospheric Success: Value, Compensation, Influence,  Authenticity, and Receptivity. For those of you who are wondering what stratospheric means, “stratospheric” means extremely high! Success beyond your wildest dreams! Would you like to learn how? 

Many lessons and concepts are shared through parable and real life examples with great content and food for thought. Making a difference in today’s world is all about creating value and these authors definitely resonated with me. If you want to experience stratospheric success, these 2 books are must read!

My greatest takeaways and how they apply to you are:

1. Create Value. If you focus on creating value for your prospects and customers, they will be your raving fans and tell others about you. Your focus needs to be, “How can I best serve?” or “How can I help you?” and doing so in such a fashion that you are not expecting anything in return but know that someday and someone will do the same for you.

2.  Meet People Where They are AT. People may find your product or service expensive. Show empathy and compassion by meeting them where they are at. Everyone does not define value in the same way. Avoid listing of all the features, they are important to you and not necessarily important to your customer. Start thinking of how your product or service aligns with what your customer values and believes in. Paraphase what they just said or objected to, “So you think this ___________ product (or service) is too expensive? Gain an understanding of where they are at and what value they would expect from paying the price of a product or service similar to yours. People want to know what is in it for them and that they will get value from doing business with you.

3.  No Pressure Sales. Basically, if they want to buy your product or service they will. Let your customer and prospect decide. Learn what your customer is looking for and why. You may even refer them to a competitor who specializes in what they are looking for. Who is best to serve your customer? They will remember how you helped them and tell others about you. Give them the option to walk away from the sale. Pressure only makes you look desperate for the sale! Maybe your product or service is not what is best for them. That’s okay – there is someone who is waiting for you to share it with them. 

4. Say Less, Communicate More. You may have heard the saying, “God gave you 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason.”  Listen to your customer and hear what their needs are. Often, we can be waiting for the pause in conversation to share our story and what we think would be a benefit to them without truly listening and hearing what is being said. You will learn many of your customers dreams and desires if you only listen.

5. Allow Yourself to Give and Receive Freely. I had someone drop a line on my Facebook page to say that Bob describes a situation of breathing out continuously. Imagine – breathing out continuously – at some point you will need to take a breathe. There is a flow to giving and receiving just like there is to breathing in and out. When someone gives to you or you give to someone else, allow yourself to both give and receive, acknowledge and appreciate the other person for the gift. A gift can be a compliment, a smile, a suggestions, or a material item. Be open to receiving because you are also getting!

There are so many more valuable sales nuggets in these books. These nuggets of information are not only good for sales but apply to all relationships in general. If you follow the Laws of Stratospheric Success, not only will you skyrocket your business but you will live Rich from the Inside Out!!

 

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: Bob Burg, communication, create value, Debra Kasowski, Go-Givers, Go-Givers Sell More, John David Mann, rich from the inside out, sales training

What Makes This Day Matter?

April 18, 2012 by Debra Kasowski Leave a Comment

Living a life rich from the inside out has a great deal to do with making each day matter. Sadly, many people either go through the motions of life or are caught up in the busyness of it all to “stop and smell the roses” until a life-changing event occurs. These life altering events may come in the form of illness, tragedy, or a sudden loss of a loved one. Why wait until something happens to you to force you to look into a mirror and reflect on where you are in your life and whether or not you are making a difference? 

As a leader of your own life, you want to be able to wake up out of bed in the morning with passion and gusto. I have even heard people refer to this as, “What makes you want to shout “Hell Yeah!” in the morning?” In other words, what makes you say, YES!!!! I am ready for this day because I love what I am doing and the impact I am having on others.” This may not resonate for you if you are not a morning person, but maybe after your first cup of coffee and your eyes open a bit more – it just might. If the answer is not YES, then the answer must be NO!

You want to make decisions around what matters to you. What matters to the people you are serving? How can you help someone to be better as a person or achieve their goals? Are you “being the change” in the world you want to see? How can you make this day matter -every day counts! All the little things create bigger and great things!

Here are 10 things you can do today to live a richer life!

  1. Identify 3 -5 of your most treasured values. Start making decisions based on the reasons why they are important to you. Align with others who have similar values. Are they the ones you would bring home to meet the family?
  2. Call a friend or spend time with someone you have been meaning to catch up with just to let them know you were thinking of them. Let them know they matter!
  3. Pick your child up from school and take them out for lunch.
  4. Ensure the last words you say in a conversation are those that can stand the test of time. If you were never able to speak to someone again, would you be okay leaving your conversation or message the way you had?
  5. Do the one thing you know you must do to transform your business in the next 30 days. Focus on a daily task for each of the day to support your mission.
  6. Send a thank you card to someone who has impacted your life and tell them why.
  7. Do something to make someone feel special or make their life easier. Compliment your spouse, co-worker, or child. Empty the dishwasher, hire a housekeeper for the day, take a friend for a leisurely lunch, or bake some cookies. Appreciation makes everyone feel good!
  8. Balance your check book so you know what money is coming and going. When you have a clear picture or a handle on your finances – life gets easier. You can come up with ways to “trim the fat” and streamline your finances so you can plan your purchases not only get your needs met but also satisfy some of your wants.
  9. Read a book on your subject topic, better yet pick up something that you have never looked at before such as fashion magazine, culinary magazine, or business magazine to stimulate your imagination and creativity. Consider listening to classical music, jazz, country, or pop rock to gain a different appreciation.  Look for the possibilities in what you do.
  10. Live your day with focus, intention, and purpose. When spend time with others, ask yourself – How can I make this day matter to me and to you?

Make today count because you matter! How will you make today matter?

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