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“Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.” – Jim Rohn

Are you looking to squeeze more hours out of your day so you can get more done? It may be time to quit hitting the snooze button and change up some of your daily habits. If you ever read about a few successful people out in the world, you will quickly learn that they take a unique approach to every day that the average person does not.

Rise and Shine Early Bird

Although the thought of sleeping in is appealing, you can get a head start on your day if you get up early. You have probably heard the saying that “the early bird catches the worm”. Many successful people have committed and disciplined themselves to get up between four and six o’clock in the morning. They say they gain 2 hours of productivity. You can gain a jump start on your day and get more done than most people do by 8 am. When you get up early, you have an opportunity to get so much more done because your time is your time is focused and free of distractions. You can start your day with a clean slate and a clear head. Use this time to your advantage. Imagine how much more you would get done if you got into the habit of getting up early. It may take some willpower initially but as you continue to do it you may surprise yourself.

Get Your Body Moving

By exercising in the morning, you are not leaving your gym time to chance. Meetings, emails, and phone calls can take up a lot of your time and by the end of the day, you may convince yourself that you are exhausted and all you need is a night crashed on the couch. Get your exercise in early. If you cannot get to a gym, go for a walk, do body weight exercises, or follow along on a yoga app. I use an app called Kettlebells. It even sends me alerts if I haven’t used the app in a few days, “Are your abs getting soft?” Now, that’s motivating! Richard Branson, Barack Obama, and Mark Zuckerberg have been known for getting their exercise routines done in the early morning. They have demanding roles that require them to be at the top of their performance.

Eat a Healthy Breakfast

Contrary to what you might think, a cup of coffee or tea with a piece of toast is not breakfast. Choose to prepare and eat a healthy breakfast to get you fueled for the day. Better yet, get your family involved in preparing the meal so they learn about this important habit. If you are stuck for time, consider making a smoothie or preparing a few items to grab and go.

Scan Your Emails for Urgent Items

Many of the emails you get from people are often about requesting something from you. Learn to quickly scan your emails for items you need from other people to propel your work further. You may even choose to quickly check social media and respond to a few comments before you start doing what needs to get done.

Map Out the Plan for the Day

Don’t look at the to-do list unless you are putting those items in your calendar to plan when you are going to get items on the list done. Whenever possible, attempt to work on the heaviest or biggest items on the list in the first part of your day when you are energized and ready to take on the day. When you plan your day with intention, you will get more done than the average person. Look at who you need to contact and follow up with to move your plans forward. What actions do you need to take to get closer to the outcomes you are looking for?

Visualize Your Outcomes

Some people use the morning quiet time to reflect, pray, or meditate. Closing your eyes and visualizing achieving your desired results is a powerful way to start your day. When you are emotionally connected to what you want to do, you are less likely to procrastinate at going after your goals.

Spend Quality Time with Family and Friends

Successful entrepreneurs and executives know when the day is done there is nothing sweeter than connecting with the people who keep you grounded. I have read articles online about how television host Kelly Ripa uses special time in the mornings to make breakfast and connect with her family, Gwyneth Paltrow chose to only take on one movie a year so she could raise her family. Start your day by setting out the door or retreating to your home office on a high note by creating a positive atmosphere to start the day.

A simple shift in the way you approach these habits could be the one change that accelerates your results. How many of these habits are you already doing? Which one would you like to adopt? Why not challenge yourself to get up early and focus on what you need to get done for the next 21 days?

DEBRA KASOWSKI, BScN CEC is an award-winning best-selling author, transformational speaker, blogger, and Certified Executive Coach. She has a heart of a teacher and is certified in Appreciative Inquiry and Emotional Intelligence. Her writing has been published in a variety of print and online magazines. Debra Kasowski International helps executives, entrepreneurs, and organizations boost their productivity, performance, and profits. It all starts with people and passion. Sign up the Success Secrets Newsletter and get your free mp3 download today! www.debrakasowski.com

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Episode 25- Influence Starts in Your Own Mind

Many people look for influence outside of themselves first when all along that influence starts with one’s self. You have to believe in the possibilities and the ability to make things happen before you can share ideas and opportunities with others so they see the vision that you do. Far too many people, feel that they have no control over their situation to they fail to take action. Pastor Joel Osteen has a book called, The Power of I Am. These two little words can transform your day, your thoughts, and the actions that you take. Osteen states, “Whatever follows the words “I am” will always come looking for you.

So, when you go through your day saying:

I am blessed blessings pursue you

I am talented talent follows you

I am healthy health heads your way

I am strong strength tracks you down.”

“I am…” is often referred to as an affirmation or what some call autosuggestion. Emile Coue, a French psychologist introduced this concept the beginning of the 20th century. In my co-authored book entitled GPS Your Best Life: Charting Your Destination and Getting There in Style, Charmaine Hammond and I talked about the importance of using positive words and statements and “I am” in conjunction with the use of vision boards. A vision board is a visual display of your goals and things you would like to achieve. It is not meant to be a pretty picture it is meant to be a tool to keep you focused and take intentional actions toward achieving what you say you want. Affirmations do work if they’re applied with action. Here’s the catch, you need to believe it because if you don’t find it believable you are not going to put in the efforts.

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At one of our vision board workshops, I was walking by a participant cutting out a wedding dress and she was hesitant about putting that picture on the vision board. She looked at this picture stated out loud “I don’t know why I’m even putting this on the board.” I happen to be near her table as she said this and I asked her “Do you not believe you deserve it?” She paused and she looked at me, “You’re right.” She sat there in deep thought for the next 5 minutes and then she proceeded to paste it on her board. I don’t know she’s married or not, I hope someday I will hear that what she wanted became a reality.

Affirmations need to be positive statements and believable. If you find it difficult to make a statement with I am you may add in the words in progress. For some people this helps to become more believable, we are always in progress evolving into who we are. There needs to be an emotional connection where when you make a statement that it either pulls your heartstrings or it gets you excited and personally drives you to achieve it. This is your why it helps you stay focused on the right things.

Write out your affirmations. Spend time visualizing them and feeling as if you’ve already achieved it. Your subconscious mind does not know the difference between what is real and what is not. Integrate this visualize nation so that you can have the feeling of that achievement and start taking steps that outline with what you want to achieve. You may meditate on it. You may choose to record it and play it when you go for a morning run or before you go to sleep. Some people put sticky notes on the bathroom mirror so they repeated whether brushing their teeth. Other people may spend their time journaling focused on their affirmation to set the tone for their day or reflect on their day.

You may have heard the adage, “Fake until you make it”. As you align your actions with your thoughts, what you want can become reality. But some people will tell you that affirmations don’t work! And the reason for this is that people do not affirm themselves and say these statements consistently to integrate them into who they are, they may not believe in the process of doing, or they learn that they’re not really emotionally connected to what they say they want to achieve. Their “why” is not strong enough.

Your mind may play tricks on you so you need to stay focused. Speak only positive words to yourself and when you catch yourself shifting into negative thoughts and hearing, “Who do you think you are?” stopped that thought immediately and state your affirmation. You are in progress of becoming exactly who you need to be. And you are currently where you need to be so that you can learn the lessons that you need to in order to move forward.

Noah St. John, the author of The Book of Afformations, shifts affirmations into afformations. And he states that, “If human thought is the process of asking and searching for answers to questions, why are we going around making statements that we don’t believe?” The reason for this is that people don’t believe the statements that they say. He realized that people were asking the wrong questions and if they ask the right questions everything would change. Noah St. John believes that you” create your life in two ways: by the statements to say to yourself and others and by the questions you ask yourselves and others.”

You need to ask yourself in powering questions and not questions about why you don’t have this or that or they are not good enough because these are disempowering. Remember you get what you focus on. So shift your question to a positive question that empowers you to take action. Start asking yourself about some of the assumptions that you are making and how you are unconsciously holding yourself back from taking that action toward what you say you want. For example, you might say “Why am I so broke?” Noah St. John says that what shows up in your life is” you find a way to not have money even when it comes in.” The same technique could be used regarding a promotion are getting a raise.

“Why am I so worthy of the promotion?”

“Why was it so easy to get the raise?”

You may start brainstorming what actions you need to start taking to get the promotion or get the raise. What actions do you need to take to get the results you want? Do you need to take a course? Volunteer? Get experience in a certain area? How are you holding yourself back? Are you taking the actions you need to?

You must change the question to empower yourself, “Why do I have enough money?”

When you ask this question your mind will start searching for an answer and as you have answers you will start contemplating taking the actions to make that your reality. It all comes down to whether or not your “why” for what you want is strong enough.

It doesn’t matter if you choose to use affirmations or afformations to help you start influencing your mind. What matters is that you start using these positive statements and questions to empower you so that you can share your ideas with others. You need to believe at first before you can enroll others into your vision. Believe in yourself and trust in your knowledge, skills, and abilities. It all starts with what you say you are… I am. Get out there and take the actions you need to take!

I would love to hear about how using affirmations or afformations has impacted your life. E-mail me at Debra@DebraKasowski.com. Thank you for listening to The Millionaire Woman Show where we talk about leadership, business, and human potential to help you live rich from the inside out. Subscribe to The Millionaire Woman Show. Give us a 5-star rating! Sign up for our Newsletter www.debrakasowski.com

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