Not only do I want to dedicate this blog post to the mothers out there internet land but I especially want to acknowledge those mothers who are business owners, the mompreneurs for balancing the needs of their families and their prospering business. Our mothers have taught – oh so many lessons ( & had many sleepless nights)  throughout our lives that apply to our businesses today. I am sure you have some incredible stories about your mother or someone who has mothered you at some point in your life.

Time and time again, I have heard entrepreneurs say, “I am stuck in rut. I do not know what to do.” My first response is, “Stop doing what you are doing if you want things to change, otherwise you will continue to get what you are getting.” For heaven’s sake, “God does not make junk.” You need to shake off the dust and show off what your Momma gave you. Remember the lessons she taught you while bandaging your knee, refereeing sibling love, or encouraging you to get back up on your bike to try again. 

Running a home is very much like running a business and it needs care and attention just like you did. Your business is your baby and you will nurture and care for it just the same. I am grateful for the lessons I have learned from my mother that  have helped me be the business owner I am today.  I decided to write this blog and share it with you. Perhaps some of the lessons are the same. Happy Mother’s Day!

Dear Mom,

Thank you for all the lessons you have taught me about being a business owner from a very young age. I bet you were not sure if some of the lessons would stick as you probably repeated some of them at least 13 times. I know there were times when I was probably a little bit headstrong but you told me that that quality would serve me well someday.

You also remind me that my true wealth would be determined by the number of lives I have touched – each day I arise wondering, “Whose life can I touch today?” Each person whose life you touch becomes part of your family.

You have always taught me to stay true to my faith and what I value. Do make assumptions because you do not know what is happening beyond closed doors. Always be of service and try to leave things better that you left them. I may not have all the answers to all the questions but if take a moment I may realize I know someone or someone who knows someone who knows the answer. See things through to completion and even though I see something as being hard I always get through. Perseverance will help me see the end result.

Please, thank you, and your welcome are words to live by. Listen to what is being said. Offer an encouraging word. Education is never a waste. Clean up your messes. Be the best you can be at whatever it is you attempt to do.

Remember where you came from but remember to keep looking  forward or you will miss an opportunity. Be grateful for what you have as there will always be someone with less than you. Give back to your community. Love & give to others unconditionally for you will be rewarded.

Your family is precious. Make your choices wisely. Life is short. Create memories whenever you get the chance.

The greatest lesson I have learned is to always BELIEVE. Miracles happen – you just need to look for them. I thank God everyday for your living donor Alice and your kidney transplant over 12 1/2 years ago.

Thank you for showing me what it takes to be a successful business owner so I could share it with others.

Your loving daughter,

Debra