Have you ever been out and realized you had two different shoes on or your skirt was caught in your panty hose? First impressions are lasting impressions and the impact we have can last longer than we know.
As I was planning next month’s Millionaire Woman Club event, Dress for Success theme, I started think about all the first impressions or judgments that women make. Yes, we say “Do not be judgmental.” however, we often get thoughts in our heads about what a person is like before we even speak to them.
The theory of knowing your ABC’s can be followed in many contexts. For instance, in healthcare, ABC – airway, breathing and circulation. When assessing a child’s wellness, we often look at ABC’s being appearance, behavior, and color. The more I thought about this, the more I realized that the ABCs of your first impression are the lifeline that gives breath or air to your personality and a person’s perception. That’s right ladies – Your first impression is the circulation and color of who you are!
The ABCs of First Impressions are:
Appearance/Apparel/Aura – Are you looking after your appearance? Do your clothes fit right? What does your dress say about you? These are a few of the questions to ask yourself. The most important question is – Would you want to do business with you?
Behaviour– This is the area that your personality shines through. Are you approachable? Do you introduce yourself to others or do you wait to be introduced? Can you start a conversation and learn more about the person you are talking to and truly listen?
Communication/Character- The words you speak are profound. How you speak to and about others says a great deal about your integrity. Smile, keep eye contact, and practice your handshake. A handshake is a tell tale sign of confidence.
First impressions last…know your ABCs and have impact!
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